Gender Reveal Cake

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Our hearts are full as we await the arrival of our first baby in the coming weeks. The journey toward getting pregnant was overwhelming and emotional, but experiencing pregnancy has been nothing short of a blessing.

As with any woman who has been on this journey, these last few weeks are full of emotions and excitement, aches and pains. I’m taking it one day at a time, kicking my feet up and soaking in every joyous movement I feel. Our world is about to change forever and for that, we are eternally grateful.

Life right now? Doing teeny tiny baby laundry and crying about how cute it all is because HORMONES. Using my belly as a snack bowl holder. Nesting. Energy fading. Catching Jude and Frankie sniffing around the nursery. Waddling.

zoomed in image of gender reveal cake with pink and blue frosting details

We found out our baby’s gender on May 1st. We told our family and close friends, but decided to keep it mostly private up until now so that we could really cherish this exciting news with loved ones. We didn’t do anything special when telling our friends/family– just phone calls and text messages. I couldn’t wait to spill the beans.

Even baking a cake was too long to wait!!!

Gender reveal parties and cakes are all the rage right now, so I wanted to do something special to share the news with YOU. You have all been so supportive and encouraging during this special time and we are so thankful! I also wanted to share a new cake recipe– something that you can make when the opportunity for a gender reveal cake (or, well, any layer cake!) presents itself in your life. 🙂

I had a few dreams about the gender in my first trimester. Mother’s instinct, perhaps? (It’s def a real thing!) We would’ve been ecstatic either way as long as our baby is healthy and thriving, but I totally had a feeling our first would be a…

inside photo of a gender reveal cake with a pink cake layer on a white plate


Many of you have been throwing out guesses this year and you were right. ♥ We cannot wait to meet and snuggle with our daughter!!

And how cute is the oh baby topper? (cake topper or cupcake topper)

slice of gender reveal cake on a white plate with a fork

Gender Reveal Cake

How about this cake though! I adapted it from my funfetti layer cake, swapping all-purpose flour for cake flour. I love how fluffy and soft cakes are when made with cake flour. It’s not always necessary and you can certainly get around using it by ensuring there’s plenty of creamed room temperature butter/sugar for fluffiness– but a gender reveal cake screams for a super light cake flour crumb.

Did you know? If you’re ever swapping cake flour for all-purpose flour, you should increase the amount because cake flour is much lighter than all-purpose; there won’t be enough dry ingredients to soak up the wet. The cake could be *too* moist. OR you can experiment by changing the amounts of wet ingredients. I actually skipped all that and just used the SAME amount of cake flour. I was pleasantly surprised by how light and soft the cake crumb was… without being too wet or soggy. You’ll love this switch!

If all-purpose flour is more convenient for you, use it to make this cake flour substitute.

cake batter in a glass bowl with pink sprinkles

The recipe all stems from 1 vanilla cake batter, but you’ll divide the batter up. 2/3 of the cake will be funfetti and 1/3 will be pink/blue. The batter is about 6 cups, so:

  • 4 cups = funfetti batter
  • 2 cups = pink or blue batter

I used 1-2 drops of “deep pink” Americolor gel food coloring and pink Sweetapolita sprinkles. You can obviously use any food coloring or sprinkles you like best. Or you can make every layer the pink or blue color OR every layer pink or blue funfetti. How you choose to “reveal” with this cake is totally up to you!

This is a super fluffy, super simple, super soft, super delish 3 layer vanilla cake recipe that you’ll use time and time again.

For decorating, I used my basic vanilla buttercream and Ateco #844 tip for decorating. I turned to our beloved two-toned frosting trick to pipe pink and blue designs. Remember when I taught you that for April’s Baking Challenge? (Video included!)

slice of gender reveal cake on a pink plate with a fork

For a nice tight-looking crumb, I refrigerated the cake for 2 hours before cutting into it. This creates a beautiful slice and keeps the frosting decoration intact. Highly recommend especially if you’re showing this cake off at a party!!

PS: A very heartfelt prayer for all of you experiencing the hurricane in Texas. Stay safe. ♥

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inside photo of a gender reveal cake with a pink cake layer on a white plate

Gender Reveal Cake

  • Author: Sally
  • Prep Time: 45 minutes
  • Cook Time: 25 minutes
  • Total Time: 4 hours, 10 minutes
  • Yield: serves 12-14
  • Category: Cake
  • Method: Baking
  • Cuisine: American


How to make a gorgeous and festive gender reveal cake for a gender reveal party or baby shower. Such a fun way to share the exciting news!


  • 3 and 3/4 cups (450g) cake flour (spoon & leveled)
  • 3/4 teaspoon baking powder
  • 3/4 teaspoon baking soda
  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • 1 and 1/2 cups (3 sticks; 345g) unsalted butter, softened to room temperature
  • 1 and 3/4 cups (350g) granulated sugar
  • 4 large eggs, at room temperature*
  • 2 large egg whites, at room temperature*
  • 3 teaspoons (15ml) pure vanilla extract
  • 1 and 1/2 cups (360ml) buttermilk, at room temperature*
  • 1/2 cup (95g) blue or pink sprinkles
  • 12 drops blue or pink food coloring

Vanilla Buttercream

  • 1 and 3/4 cups (3 and 1/2 sticks; 400g) unsalted butter, softened to room temperature
  • 7 cups (840g) confectioners’ sugar
  • 6 Tablespoons (90ml) heavy cream
  • 1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
  • 1/4 teaspoon salt


  1. Preheat oven to 350°F (177°C). Grease and lightly flour three 9-inch cake pans.
  2. Make the cake: Whisk the flour, baking powder, baking soda, and salt together in a large bowl. Set aside. Using a handheld or stand mixer fitted with a paddle attachment, beat the butter and sugar together on high speed for 4-5 minutes until creamed together. Scrape down the sides and up the bottom of the bowl with a rubber spatula as needed. On medium-high speed, add 1 whole egg at a time, beating well after each addition. Beat in the 2 additional egg whites and the vanilla extract. Scrape down the sides and up the bottom of the bowl with a rubber spatula as needed. If mixture looks curdled, don’t worry. It will all come together.
  3. With the mixer on low speed, add the dry ingredients in three additions alternating with the buttermilk, beginning and ending with the dry ingredients, and mixing each addition just until incorporated. Do not overmix this batter. The batter will be smooth, velvety, and slightly thick.
  4. There will be just over 6 cups of batter total– transfer just over 2 cups of it to a separate bowl. Tint that batter pink or blue with food coloring. Gently stir the sprinkles into the remaining 4 cups of batter.
  5. Pour/spread batter evenly into prepared cake pans.
  6. Bake for around 25 minutes or until the cakes are baked through. To test for doneness, insert a toothpick into the center of the cake. If it comes out clean, it is done. Allow cakes to cool completely in the pans set on a wire rack. The cakes must be completely cool before frosting and assembling.
  7. Make the frosting: In a large bowl using a hand-held mixer or stand mixer fitted with a paddle attachment, beat the butter on medium speed until creamy, about 2 minutes. Add confectioners’ sugar, cream, vanilla extract, and salt with the mixer running on low. Increase to high speed and beat for 3 full minutes. Add more confectioners’ sugar if frosting is too thin, more cream if frosting is too thick, or a pinch more of salt if frosting is way too sweet.
  8. Assemble and frost: Place 1 cake layer on your cake stand or serving plate. Evenly cover the top with frosting. Top with 2nd layer and evenly cover the top with frosting. Finish with the third cake layer and spread the remaining frosting all over the top and sides. Use any leftover frosting for piping decoration. (I used an Ateco #844 tip and piped two-toned designs.) For a neat cut, refrigerate for 1-2 hours before slicing.
  9. Cover and store leftover cake at room temperature for 1-2 days or in the refrigerator for up to 1 week.


  1. Make Ahead Instructions: The cake layers can be baked, cooled, and covered tightly at room temperature overnight. Likewise, the frosting can be prepared then covered and refrigerated overnight. Assemble and frost the cake the next day when you are ready to serve. Frosted cake can be frozen up to 2 months if you have room in the freezer. Thaw overnight in the refrigerator and bring to room temperature before serving. It tastes much better fresh though!
  2. Cake Flour: If you can’t get your hands on cake flour, use this homemade cake flour substitute.
  3. Special Tools: KitchenAid Stand Mixer | 9-inch Round Cake Pan | Piping Bags | Ateco #844 Tip | Americolor Soft Gel Paste Kit | Oh Baby Cake Topper | Oh Baby Cupcake Topper | Custom Printed Fork
  4. Eggs: You need 4 whole eggs and 2 additional egg whites for this recipe.
  5. Buttermilk: If you don’t have buttermilk, you can make a DIY sour milk substitute. Add 2 teaspoons of white vinegar or lemon juice to a liquid measuring cup. Then add enough whole milk to the same measuring cup until it reaches 1 and 1/2 cups. (In a pinch, lower fat or nondairy milks work for this soured milk, but the cake won’t taste as moist or rich.) Stir it around and let sit for 5 minutes. The homemade “buttermilk” will be somewhat curdled and ready to use in the recipe.

You could even make a checkerboard cake with blue or pink instead! Recipes are similar.


  1. Congratulations on your baby girl!! As a mommy to two daughters, I can honestly tell you there is nothing better in the world!  I am excited for you both.

  2. Deanna Kittrell says:

    Congratulations! I am so happy for you!

  3. Approximately how much frosting do you put between the layers? I’m always afraid of not having enough frosting left for the outside, but then I never have enough inside. Last weekend I made your funfetti layer cake for my daughter’s second birthday and put three full ice cream scoops’ worth on each layer and it still wasn’t enough. I want beautiful thick frosting layers like you do in these photos!

    1. Layer it on thick– there is about 1/2 inch of frosting between each layer and unfortunately, I didn’t measure it! You can use a ruler to ensure the layer is that thick, just spread it all on as evenly as you can.

  4. Kayle (The Cooking Actress) says:

    ahhhh this cake is so cute!!! (We also couldn’t keep it a secret long enough to do any legit gender reveal lolol) So excited for you guys!!! Enjoy your sweet baby girl <3

  5. Oh Sally, I’m so happy for you guys! Congratulations! 

  6. A girl! So happy for you and Kevin! I have a daughter that I still bake with on a regular basis (she’s 32 now). I am so grateful for that special time we share ❤

  7. Congrats on the blessing of a daughter! She will be such a welcome and exciting addition to your family! I also have to tell you, I love the fork!! I just realized it is personalized!! LOVE IT!!!

  8. Yayy, congrats!! So exciting 😀 love the cake!

  9. Congratulations!!  Love the cake…looks delicious!  I have three girls and they are the best!   Enjoy your last few weeks of pregnancy!

  10. Thanks for sharing the great news. Can’t wait to see a picture of the whole family.

  11. Congrats!  I am glad the quilt will be the right colors. Hopefully it made it to you!  It took me a long time to get a girl, but she is wonderful (and all her brothers too).  Enjoy!

  12. Congratulations! What a beautiful way to reveal your baby to all of us!

  13. Many blessings. My first born was a girl and well, like you said….the important factor is a healthy baby. Love the cake and the reveal. Hoping for smooth sailing from here on out. Know she will be beautiful like her mom.

  14. Congratulations on the little girl who is about to join your family, Sally!
    I love the idea of revealing it with a cake, I might do it when my time comes, if I’ll have mastered layer cake making.
    I’ve seen with my nieces how exciting and full the last week can be, I can picture you working in the kitchen with your little girl when she’ll be big enough to help out.
    I’ve been following you for a while and I’ve received “Sally’s baking addiction” just on Friday, I cannot wait to start making all the amazing recipes. I’ve already ordered “Sally’s Cookie addiction” as well and it’s going to be an amazing Fall-Winter season recreating all your recipes.
    Layer cake kind of scares me, but I will definitely try making it, since you make it sound easy and fun.
    Have a great rest of the week,


    Congrats Sally!!! The cake is looking so amazing.

  16. Oh Sally, I’m so happy for you and your husband and puppies!  My daughter is more of a Tomboy, so the minute she could take her clothes off she’s never worn pink!  I would love to celebrate by sending a small gift for your baby, as I am sure others would to.  Do you mind us doing this and where is the best address to send it to?  So glad you get to take some relaxing time before SHE comes!  Love to you!

    1. Hi Thea! Feel free to send me a private email about this: info(at)

      Thank you so much!

  17. I’m SO happy for you and Kevin!!!! I can’t wait to see what a rockstar baker your daughter is going to be when she grows up! 😉 This cake is truly beautiful and I know your baby girl will be too! CONGRATULATIONS! <3

  18. Congratulations!!! The cake is such a great idea too!!!

  19. Stella @ Stellicious Life says:

    So excited and happy for you Sally! A little girl is wonderful! (I know something, my parents had 3 daughters and my dad wouldn’t had it any other way, he deeply loves his precious daughters :-D)

    When are you due in September? Will be thinking of you, I bet you cannot wait to meet your precious daughter! 😀

    1. Stella @ Stellicious Life says:

      In my giddy excitement I completely hit send before commenting on the cake 😉 Looks like the perfect cake for a little girl’s birthday party 😀

  20. What a gorgeous cake and congratulations to you both. 

  21. Congratulations!!!! Aw, how sweet 🙂 I love this cake. Everything you make it beautiful!

  22. It has been SO FUN seeing all the funfetti recipes in the blog community today in your honor! Congrats again 🙂

  23. My son and daughter in love are due just after you in October. They are having a boy and she loves your cookie recipes especially. Please look up on youtube a Garth Brooks song called “Mom”. It is incredible and it’s so very special. Congratulations!

  24. Congratulations Sally!

  25. I feel honored that you shared the gender with us! I had my son 15 months ago and I love him so, so dearly! I wanted to share with you that it was really tough initially just getting everything figured out (nursing, new routine, healing from the birth, how to care for our sweet puppy dog who was used to getting all our attention, etc.). There was lots of crying. So, I wanted to encourage you to just take things one moment at a time. Don’t worry about us, as we’ll be here when you get back… just take your time figuring out how to be a mom to your precious baby girl. The overwhelming love you’ll feel when you hold her for the first time… remember that on the hard days. All the best to Team Sally and Kevin!!

  26. Congrats Sally! If Sprinkle was an apporpriate name I would sggest that you name her Sprinkle!

  27. Congratulations!!! You will be a fabulous mother to your beautiful baby girl!

  28. Barbara A Sandoval says:

    Blessings on your new daughter. May she be ad cute as the sprinkles and sweet as the cake. Take time to enjoy your new family and we’ll get by reading your past posts.
    Are you gonna share name ideas?. Suggestion: Barbara

  29. Hi! I have been silently reading your recipes for a few months now but this is the first time I’m saying anything… CONGRATS! I myself am one of three girls and you will just love having a daughter! I’m so happy for you and LOVEEE your recipes!

  30. Oh, my gosh. I’m so thrilled with thought of you having a daughter, Sally!!! Congratulations!!!!! 🙂

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